They say your friends are the family you choose.
My Paris family took a while to find, but now I can’t imagine living here without them — which is convenient, because the majority of us are all leaving within the next two months, meaning I won’t have to.
So last week, to celebrate my 24th birthday and to say goodbye to the first couple of our number who are moving onto bigger and better things, I threw a huge “Paris in the 50s” bash at said couple’s beautiful Parisian apartment in the heart of the Marais.
I was assisted greatly by two more dear friends: Marina, who loves to decorate; and Kerri, who loves making cocktails. A perfect party planning combination.
The dress code was black and white. Skinny ties were encouraged. Gin gin mules and dirty martinis flowed all night.
Just a few members of my Paris family:
Of course, many of my first — and best — Paris friends came from the blogging community. The ones that could make it included Diane (who also happens to be the best roommate I could have ever asked for), Ashley, Danielle, Emily, and Ylenia.
Marina even found me a black and white birthday cake from the famous Gerard Mulot, deliciously full of chocolate-on-chocolate mousse action. When the cake came out and everyone started singing Happy Birthday, I was practically exploding with so much happiness I ugly-smiled.
Really, I’ve never seen myself make such a contorted smile before — and while I was horrified to see the photos the next day, it really is a testament to just how touched and overflowing with joy I was that my smile couldn’t even fit on my face.
My favorite part, however, was seeing my worlds colliding — and colliding so well. The bloggers, the Googlers, the work friends, even a couple blog readers with whom I’d become friends — they all mingled and danced like they’d known each other from the start. There wasn’t a single lonely soul that night.
We stayed talking and drinking and dancing long into the night; and in a birthday miracle, none of the neighbors complained about the noise, even though a friend who left at 3 am later stated the party could clearly be heard from street-level.
I didn’t get to throw as many parties as I would have liked to in Paris, so at least the one I did pull off, I really made it count. It was truly one of the best — and most memorable — parties I’ve ever hosted; when I got home and read the guestbook everyone signed full of birthday and farewell wishes, I was even more touched.
The expat pools are always a game of chance, so I feel grateful and lucky to have found the many wonderful friends here in Paris that I did. Merci beaucoup, mes amis, merci.
40 Comments
Ashley of Ashley Abroad
May 30, 2013 at 22:09Love, love this post. And happy birthday!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:31Thanks lady — and thanks for skipping Rotterdam to make my party ;)
Ashley
May 30, 2013 at 22:14Sweet, and happy belated birthday! Love the decor, cocktails, and the outfits!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:31Thanks Ashley!
Lauren
May 31, 2013 at 02:39This made me feel inexplicably happy, kind of odd since I don’t know anyone in the photos and have never even met you in person. But it looked like exactly the kind of birthday an expat could hope for!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:32Oh I’m glad, I was hoping that would happen even though I know it’s weird since most people don’t know these people or me. But yay!
Steph (@ 20 Years Hence)
May 31, 2013 at 03:03This is definitely one party I wish I could have been at! It looks AMAZING with such a perfect vibe. What an awesome way to kick off your final stretch of time in Paris. Clearly if sports journalism gets old you have a second career as a party planner waiting in the wings!
Joyeux anniversaire!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:33You would have fit in perfectly and I so wish you could have been there!
Jay
May 31, 2013 at 10:2024 – my god, you’re making me feel old Edna!
The party looked fabulous and so great that you have made such good friends to share it with!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:34Haha really? I thought you were the same age as me!
Jay
June 3, 2013 at 22:52Hahaha – well thank you but no… I’ve got 6 years on you.
And to be honest, I thought I’d be in the middle of a full on crisis with 30 coming in a few days but I’m happier than I’ve ever been and so ready to say goodbye to my 20s!
Sara
May 31, 2013 at 12:24Looks like a wonderful party! Wished we could have been there. Paris will not be the same without you, Edna! You will be dearly missed.
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:35Aw thanks Sara, trust me you guys were missed! You and Michael will have to come visit once I’m settled into my new place!
Diane, A Broad
May 31, 2013 at 14:21A comment only you would understand: meow. Mrrrr meow? Mew mew meooooow!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:35Mrrow? Mew mew mew meeeeew!
Alex @ ifs ands & butts
May 31, 2013 at 17:27What a gorgeous occasion!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:36Thanks Alex!
Julika
May 31, 2013 at 17:58This sounds and looks like the perfect birthday party! You looked fabulous! Happy birthday!
edna
June 1, 2013 at 00:36Thanks Julika! Shame you weren’t in town last weekend instead of next weekend :)
Danielle
June 1, 2013 at 11:59Gorgeous photos! They really capture the fun and love that night. I am grateful that we both were able to enjoy such happy birthdays.
edna
June 3, 2013 at 15:29Thanks Danielle! So glad you could make it and honored to have been a part of your celebrations as well!
Katherina
June 1, 2013 at 12:30Such a beautiful post, Edna! And Happy Birthday!!!
edna
June 3, 2013 at 15:29Thanks Katherina!
Ylenia
June 1, 2013 at 12:45Beautiful post! It’s good to know you had such a wonderful time in your birthday! We had a blast ourselves, thanks for inviting us :)
I know we just met, but I’m genuinely sad you’re leaving so soon!!
Hope you make the most out of these last parisian days to then get full on with your new italian life… so exciting!!
xx
Ylenia
edna
June 3, 2013 at 15:30Thanks Ylenia, so glad you guys could make it and that you had a good time! Shame we met just as I was leaving but you’re always welcome to visit!
Audrey
June 1, 2013 at 13:20What a great way to ring in your 24th birthday! Looks like it was a fabulous party and you do look very happy. ;)
edna
June 3, 2013 at 15:31Thanks Audrey, you’re right on both counts :)
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Erica
June 6, 2013 at 20:06Happy Birthday, lady! Glad it sounds like you had an awesome birthday celebration :)
edna
June 11, 2013 at 14:18Thanks! I did! You would’ve loved it :)
Daisy
June 7, 2013 at 08:06Your party looked like so much fun! Happy Birthday, Edna!
edna
June 11, 2013 at 14:18Thanks Daisy!
Callie
June 10, 2013 at 10:41What a beautiful party! Sounds like an evening to remember forever. Everyone looks so glamorous…and I have to say, I am seriously coveting that apartment!
edna
June 11, 2013 at 14:19Thanks Callie, it was — and I love that apartment too, oh to live in the Marais!!
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Ceri
June 13, 2013 at 18:23I smiled and smiled reading this. :) First of all, a belated happy birthday. Second of all, Paris in the 50s as a theme? Amazing! Last, I love seeing how happy you and everyone looked in these pictures. I’m so glad it was a fantastic night.
edna
July 2, 2013 at 11:22Aw thanks, thanks, and thanks again Ceri!
travellingmo
June 13, 2013 at 19:29That looks like the best birthday ever!!! Wish I was there! Edna, I really love your “snapshot” style portraits. They are so amazing and inviting and really tell a lot about your subject.
edna
July 2, 2013 at 11:23Thank you Mo! I love taking photos of people, glad you caught onto that :)
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